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The Coming Financial Squeeze

As prices rise and incomes stagnate, how can you wisely manage your finances? Discover genuine, practical answers.

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Have you experienced difficulty paying every bill on time? Would you say that your financial house is in order?            

Personal bankruptcy rates have increased an average of 25% every year since 2006. Last year, nearly 1.6 million American families admitted financial default and filed for bankruptcy.

It's not just an American problem. Australia, Canada, the UK, and other Western nations have seen a similar trend. Families may struggle for up to two years searching for a way out before seeking legal protection. Things are not getting better for most of us. Prices are rising while incomes decline or stagnate.

What about you? How are you managing the current economic climate?

Stay tuned to Beyond Today as we discuss how you can cope with "The Coming Financial Squeeze."

The dominant financial news in recent months has been about unemployment, falling real estate values and the rise of public debt.  

More than two years ago, we saw the American stock market decline and wipe out billions of dollars of wealth--much of it retirement accounts of people like you and me. Other nations, like Canada, suffered as well and coped in some ways better than America.

Now while the stock market has rebounded, it still is subject to swings such as rising oil and food prices and uncertainty in places like the Middle East. Housing prices have not come back to pre-crisis levels which, leaves many still holding homes worth less than the mortgage.

You, I'm sure, have felt the financial squeeze of rising prices of food and gas.

Maybe you've been shocked at how such prices have gone up these past months! Prices of everyday items are going higher and our incomes are not keeping pace. Have you felt the financial squeeze too? If we are carrying large amounts of debt, we will be faced with the choice of paying a bill or buying food. A recipe for disaster if we don't get it corrected.

If you are worried about high debt, you are not alone. We need to understand why this has become such a prevalent problem.  

To discuss this today, I have invited an expert to join me on Beyond Today. Rex Sexton is a Certified Financial Planner who has been giving financial counsel to families for over thirty years.

Darris:
Rex, welcome to the program. What is your experience as a financial counselor as to why people are in such problems of debt?

Rex:
Well thank you Darris. If you look at what has happened the last five to six years, you go back five years ago, the average American family had a large equity in their home--average was somewhere around $100,000 per family. They had a lot of money in their retirement program, perhaps a substantial amount in a 401K or something similar. They had a good job with increasing income. Inflation was low and the future looked very confident. They felt good about the future. And in what has happened has been almost unheard of in our history except perhaps in the early 30s, the time of the Great Depression.

American families now find that their equity in their real estate has almost disappeared, in some cases completely disappeared. They not only have lost significant amounts of their retirement income. Unemployment has gone up and they have also seen rising prices. So they really are feeling the squeeze and the time to look at themselves financially, and their debt load, and how they are handling their finances is so important today. It's almost one of the most important things they can do.

Darris:
What is the state of debt for the American family today?

Rex:
You know, debt went down a little bit in the last few years, contrary to our government…

Darris:
Personal debt.

Rex:
Personal debt actually went down until about a year ago, it started going back up. It still is way too high. Its average of about $7,800 per family in the United States, which for most people is simply unmanageable to pay it every single month and we are seeing a rise in bankruptcies. We are seeing a rise in housing foreclosures, in fact, perhaps as many as 2 million this coming year. We really are on some difficult times and we are not seeing much to tell us that the future is going to be better anytime soon.

Darris:
What kind of debt seems to be the biggest problem for people?  

Rex:
Well, why do people get into debt is a good question. One is, of course, that it's simply impulsive buying. People do not have, perhaps don't have a budget. They don't plan their spending. They see something. They want it. And in our American society it's so easy to have someone talk you into it and say, "Oh buy this. You can afford the monthly payments." Also we tend to frivol away a lot of money as Americans and as Westerners. We buy a lot of fast food, rent movies. Most people I've counsel with, they lose track of how much they are frittering away.

But the impact of what that debt can do to families is something that is very serious. Men seem to have this mental attitude, that as long as they can pay their bills and pay the minimum per credit card each month, they can go off and watch TV or play football, whatever.

Darris:
Not realizing they are building up a lot of interest payments.

Rex:
Right. The consequences don't seem to register. But wives and women react differently. It causes them mental stress. They worry and fret about their future; they are very concerned about what might happen if this debt continues. So it really is no surprise that the debt cycle Americans have gotten themselves into has caused marriage problems and family problems, really for the past 30 or 40 years.

Darris:
Alright, let's break this matter of debt down. Everyone has debt. There is a mortgage debt. There is a car debt. You've mentioned consumer debt--credit cards. Is there an acceptable type of debt in our American way of life and if so, what would that be, as opposed to debt that perhaps is not acceptable from a sound fiscal perspective?

Rex:
We have become way too accustomed to being in debt in our country. I'll just share that as a first statement. No society in history has ever had their average population in so much debt. It's never been so easy to borrow money as it has been in America during the last 20 or 30 years. We have to almost always have a mortgage it seems like in this country, because the cost of housing is so high and we do have a tax benefit from getting a mortgage. Beyond that, my advice to people is: If it concerns you, how you are going to pay that off, you shouldn't borrow it. You shouldn't get into it.

Darris:
No matter what the purchase might be.

Rex:
That's right. If you simply cannot afford it, you simply cannot afford it. Being on a cash basis, learning to save is very important. There is something very strange also about the psyche that we all have. It is easy to spend borrowed money, whereas it is not easy to spend saved money. So if you have a $5,000 limit on a credit card, it's so easy to go out and spend that and buy big screen televisions, or go on vacation, whatever. But if you have worked hard to save $5,000 you'll be very careful not to spend that money frivolously. You'll watch it. So we all need to understand it is very easy to spend somebody else's money that we are borrowing, as compared to our own money.

Darris:
So you would recommend people staying away at all from certainly consumer debt? Credit card debt and easy purchases?

Rex:
Sure if they possibly can, because you know the interest is money gone forever. You pay it and get nothing in return except you borrowed or rented somebody else's money. And the problem is it could continue to increase and increase and snowball. And what we found the last 20 years was all of the easy debt that has been offered to us, is that many people simply cannot afford. They get in way too deep or they lose their job or something happens. We need to be like Joseph was in the Bible. Where he, during the seven years of plenty, he built up his savings and then the seven years of famine he was able then to survive. We are heading towards some very difficult times and people need…

Darris:
We have already been through difficult times. You're saying there's even more…?

Rex:
I believe it is going to be much worse. And I think there are indications of that. So this is the time to be preparing ahead of time to making sure we are living defensively.

Darris:
Well then how can families begin to work together to solve or prevent such fiscal problems?

Rex:
Well that's a great question. Most families need to work together as a team. And they need to sit down and say okay: How much money do we have? What are our assets? What do we need to keep? What do we, what are the essentials each month? I think Americans have gotten way too used to getting a lot of luxuries and wants, and not understanding the difference between needs and wants. So once we have met our needs, it's a great time to start thinking let's put off some of those wants and begin to get our fiscal house in order, pay off any debt that is short term, especially the credit card type. And it's not easy to do because we are so used to just ripping out the plastic, or going down and borrowing the money.

Darris:
It's easy to get those plastic credit cards.

Rex:
Oh it is and it's also easy not to know what your spouse is doing. But families need to sit down, certainly on a monthly basis and say this is what our budget is and be very, very careful with it. And not just plan for this month and getting by, but planning long term. Saying where are we going to be in two years, in five years, in 10 years? Because the world is changing and unless we are prepared ahead of time, we might get caught and a lot of us have gotten caught during the past three or four years.

Darris:
A budget is a pathway to a solution.

Rex:
A budget is simply a spending plan. And it's very important we plan our spending. Your finances are a very integral part of your life. And as far as keeping mental health and keeping sane and reducing stress, it's very important.

Darris:
You know, today you can find hundreds of excellent books and programs that help you get control of your personal finances. Now many of them will cost you money. If you are already in debt, you don't need to continue giving your money to someone else. That's why, we've prepared a booklet that will cost you nothing and immediately help you to begin to get out of debt.

It's called Managing Your Finances. This booklet contains all of the basics that you really need to start a plan to become debt free. This booklet is going to explain the biblical foundation for managing your personal finances. Apply its principles, like setting and living by a budget as we have been talking about already. Do that and you can begin to solve your financial problems. This booklet even includes a sample budget in the center fold here that will help you to even get started.

All you have to do to get this free booklet is call: 1-888-886-8632 or you can go online right now to BeyondToday.tv to download a copy. It's free and there is no follow up. All of our booklets on Beyond Today are also available for download to your iPad, your Kindle, or your Nook.

Now, many of you watching today have financial concerns. You may be caught in a debt trap, or you may have seen your assets greatly decreased in recent years. Is there a solution? How can you plan your finances to make ends meet? Well, there are solutions. There is a way out of this.

And we are discussing practical solutions today with our guest, Rex Sexton, who is a pastor as well as a certified financial planner.

Darris:
You know Rex, there are a lot of financial management books and tools out there. Which one is the best?

Rex:
The principles of course are found in the Bible--God's Word. It has over 230 verses about financial management, more than that if you simply add in the references to money. I think the primary scripture simply says the borrower is slave to the lender. And people don't realize when they go out and borrow this money, whether it's on a bank credit card or some other way, that they literally are enslaved to that institution that gave them that money. Institutions know that and they try to get us hooked.

Let me give you an example. When my son was first going to college as freshman, he had no job, he had no money. He was living on borrowed money from me. But as he went into register, there were 12 tables, each one from a different bank, all trying to give him credit cards. Just sign up for them.

Darris:
When I was a college freshman, it was very difficult to get a credit card.

Rex:
When you and I went in the 70s…No. We could not have gotten a credit card. But he got in trouble on one of the cards and I called the vice president of a bank you would recognize the name of, and I said, why did you give my son this credit card? He had no income. He had no job. And he said, well, we want to get them started on our bank services and we know that most parents will bail them out. So I said to him, I said, you know this sounds a lot like what drug dealers do. They get kids started on a bad habit to get them hooked. And then his exact words to me were, "I would not disagree with what you just said."

So they are out there trying. And my step dad told me growing up--my step dad grew up in the depression. Many of us had parents who understood how much work it is to acquire something. And he told me, he said the most important word in your vocabulary has to be the word no. Where you say no, I don't want to spend that money. No, I don't want to borrow that money. No, I am not going to get involved in this get-rich-quick scheme.

But Americans, our society is not accustomed the word no. We are accustomed to yes, we can have it now. Just borrow. Just go ahead and get yourself obligated. It's very dangerous and the Bible warns us against that. The Bible also warns us in Paul's letter to Timothy, that those who would try to get rich pierce themselves through with many sorrows. And how many families have been destroyed because people have tried to get into get-rich-quick schemes where they pay money into the lottery? It's honestly a national embarrassment that our state governments have lotteries because people are in trying to get this get-rich-quick schemes. It hurts a lot of people. And so Paul was rightly told Timothy, that those that try to get rich really pierce themselves…

Darris:
The lotteries tend to take the money from the poorest…

Rex:
The poorest people--those who simply cannot afford it. And so instead of working hard and saving a little bit at a time, until you get a little more accrued and gradually accruing a little bit of wealth and equity. People instead are spending their money and losing it in these lottery schemes and similar things.

Jesus Christ said your life does not consist of the things that you possess. And yet, we often measure success in things that we have, not in relationships, not in our relationship with our Creator or the future that we have. Sometimes we have seen people destroy their relationships with their husbands, their wives, their children, because they think their life consists of the things they possess, when it doesn't.

You got to an airport, you find all of these little gift stands because people buy trinkets for their children because they feel guilty. They're gone from their kids.

Darris:
Gone from home…

Rex:
They are on a business trip, so on their way home they buy some trinket to try to make up to that child. What the child really wanted was their time. The child doesn't want a trinket. But often times, because we are pursuing money, we think that possessions and more possessions is a goal in life to have. That we've sacrificed our children and certainly people that know we do that and know we feel guilty, sell those things.

But you know once those years are gone, you cannot get them back. If a child turns 10 the father can't say well I was going to teach him to fish when he was six, but now he's 10 so I can't. And how many parents have talked to me, I have heard say, that if they could go back and do it again, they would spend so much more time with their children and less time pursing their career.

Darris:
Why should we look to the Bible for financial help?

Rex:
The Bible is the Word, God's, He is our Creator. He created our mind. He knows how we work. He knows what will make us happy and He knows what we should strive for in this life. The world on the other hand, tries to hold out things that are like a mirage. Things that we think will make us happy but won't. There's the old saying, if we strive to get happy by acquiring temporary things, our happiness will always be temporary.

But there are permanent things that make us happy: Our relationships with our husband or wife, the kind of family that God intended when He created Adam and Eve. Our relationship with our Creator and the hope He gives us of a coming Kingdom we can be a part of. Those things are real happiness and those are the things that we need to be striving for.

Darris:
Money should really help us develop those rather than separate those types of relationships…

Rex:
Right. Money is a tool. It is not a goal. It simply is a tool to use to have the kind of life that we should have.

Darris:
Are there predictions about economic conditions in Bible prophecy?

Rex:
Yes. It's interesting you ask that question. In Luke 16 there is a parable that Christ gave, and He didn't say if your money fails, He was telling people use their money properly because He says, when it fails. So the prophecy from Christ is when your monetary system does fail, then you should be able to have the benefit of doing things the right way.

So there is coming a time when we know that this financial borrowing binge our governments have been on has to destroy the monetary system as we know it. And it will, how will we taken over to a worldwide bank or whatever they do to solve the problem, we don't know. All we know is this huge amount of debt that we are accruing, not only America but other Western nations, simply cannot continue. And so there is going to be a time when the financial system, as we know it, is going to collapse and be replaced with something else. And it's going to be a very, very difficult time, because the average family is going to suffer a reduced standard of living.

Darris:
You know, greed, materialism really has become a part of life and do dovetail into the, even the prophetic element. What causes that?

Rex:
Well greed is because of human nature and I think part of that human nature is simply a matter of competition. We see other people as our competition. We don't see the real competition that we have here on this earth.

I've known two very wealthy people in my life--men who would be up in the billionaire category. And I asked one of them one time, a few years ago, I sat down with him and had lunch, and I said, why do you keep on striving to make more money? You have more than you could ever spend. You have more coming in for the rest of your life that even your family could spend. And he looked at me and said, it's winning the deal. So he has this competition where he has to do deals with other guys who are very wealthy and they're sort of in a competition as to who can win, who could beat the other out, so to speak. So it's almost like a sports competition I would guess.

But isn't that, it says something about greed; that after a while, it isn't just about having money to do good things. Like many people have: the Bill and Melinda Gates Foundation is a good example, Carnegie and his libraries. I mean, many people have been philanthropic and used their financial blessings to help others. But there's also that group that it's simply all about me. And it's about greed and it's about being in competition with other people. And those are, I think tells us a lot about human nature, something that we need to overcome.

Darris:
What are some other concepts from the Bible that can help people get out of the trap of debt? Some of the principles that God's Word talks about?

Rex:
Well, the most important principle is that God says in Proverbs to honor Him with the firstfruits of all of your increase, which means tithing. The first 10% belongs to God. In the book of Malachi He challenges us. He says, I challenge you now. You bring the tithes into my storehouse and I will open the doors of heaven to bless you.

Darris:
Now tithing, we are talking about a law of God.

Rex:
Right. It's a law of God that has been in place since day one. It still works. There are many, many illustrations and stories people could tell about where they've stepped out on faith. They've honestly given God His first, the first 10% of all their increase and yet that 90% they have left over, it seems to be more than what they had to begin with.

Darris:
It goes further.

Rex:
That's right. God blesses it. And the tithing principle is one that is where God tells you, be my partner. It's really one of the few things He tells us in the Bible, you do this and I'll hold your hand and together we will accomplish this. So it's really a powerful law.

Darris:
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We are now joined by Beyond Today host, Steve Myers, and Rex Sexton, to continue discussing how to handle these tight financial times.

Darris:
Steve, in the case of the average person, how should they prepare for what's coming, financially?

Steve:
I think sometimes the most simple solutions can be the best. Especially when you think about it, we shouldn't buy things that we don't have the money for. So if we wait till we have the cash, we're not going to get into debt. We're not going to pay a lot of interest on credit cards, if we just wait till we have the money. And I think that's a very simple solution that could at least start us down the path to having a better solvency in our own individual families.

Rex:
It's a change in the way you think, and a change in the way we value, not only our life, but what is important in our life. And we have to look at ourselves and plan, okay, what's the most important thing I want to accomplish in the next year, two years, five years. Most important thing should be our relationship with God and secondly, our relationships with those whom we love, our family. And after that then we could improve in the other areas, and use the financial blessings as a way to not only help, but to improve our relationship with God and with our family.

Steve:
That's kind of an interesting point because it reminded me of one of the Proverbs. Proverbs 3:9 says that we should honor the Lord with our possessions.

Rex:
Right.

Steve:
Sometimes we don't think about that. That the way I spend my money, could actually show whether or not I honor God! You know, what do I put first? Do I put things first? Are things more important to me than a relationship with God? Are things more important to me than a relationship with my family? And I think that we have a tendency to get that mixed up in our thinking, and so the Bible is pretty clear on what should be most important to us.

Darris:
What's the most important step in breaking the debt trap?

Rex:
Well Darris, I would say the most important step is to take an honest appraisal of where you are. And if you've had the habit of simply paying on credit and at the end of the month being surprised by the large size of this bill that comes, then you need to stop and say okay, something is wrong here. So maybe a good look in the mirror is the most important step and after that it might be looking at your spending plan and ways to improve your income, if that's necessary. Or ways to live below your income so you can start saving a certain amount each month and begin to build up some equity. So, probably just a good cold glass of water in the face, so to speak, or look in the mirror is what most of us need.

Steve:
Yeah I think one of the things that, if you look at one of the principles in the Bible, is the principle of tithing. That God shows clearly that we should take 10% of our income and support His work with that. And, we need to take a look at that. If we don't understand what it's about we should read our Bible and find out what does that mean and how can it impact me and really make a difference in my life and my financial state as well. I think people would be surprised how much God could bless them if they begin to apply that principle.

Darris:
We've talked about tithing in the earlier segment. Tithing is a law of God and it really speaks to, not just the disciplined, but a commitment to a way of life.

Steve:
Not just a financial law but a spiritual law!

Darris:
It is a spiritual law and you know, when you, this whole issue of money, the principles that we talked about from the Bible about financial management. Christ in so many of His parables would use money to illustrate spiritual principles, really spiritual character. And I think it's amazing to really study it from that point of view, to understand the way we handle money and view money speaks a great deal about our character…

Steve:
Right.

Darris:
…as individuals, and especially spiritual character.

Rex:
Well, where your treasure is, your heart will be also. God is almost saying, where you put your money and how you manage your finances tells me about your heart. Tells me what is important to you inside. And so, God is watching what we do. It is an integral part of our character and something we need to say is not divorced from our relationship with God. It's not a separate issue with our family. It is integral to both of those things.

Darris:
So, what we're talking about is we turn people to the Bible for financial principles. It is a very practical hands-on first step that can begin a search for a right and proper foundation of a relationship with the true God.

Rex:
That's right.

Steve:
Yeah I think sometimes we separate our life out. We've got this religious part over here, and here's our financial part and here's my job. And it's all separated but that's not what the Bible teaches. We are, supposed to have a relationship with God and not put our life in these different categories, instead we should frame it by our relationship with God and that should come first and that's going to be then the basis for all the things that we do in our life.

Darris:
What can families plan for financially in the short term, in the near future?

Rex:
Well Darris, it's going to be a very difficult future. We've all hoped that the recession would end. There are some signs, but honestly we've lost 8 million jobs overseas. Real estate values have not come back. The average person has lost confidence. And it's going to take a lot of time to rebuild that confidence. So it may come back, but honestly I would say for the next three to five years we need to plan on more rising prices, more difficult times, more of a financial squeeze for every family. So we need to be preparing now and making sure that we're not caught.

Darris:
You know Rex, you mentioned the word confidence. I think from what I've read in the many articles about the current financial problems and what lies ahead, probably as much as anything else, the biggest concern that planners have and people who understand this is the lack of confidence that people have for the future, financial future. Not just their immediate financial future but for many Western governments, America, Canada, that lack of confidence is as much as anything else, it seems to be holding back a really, full recovery.

Rex:
Well not only that Darris, but people are even not confidence anymore in precious metals. Gold has gotten up to where it's four times the cost of what it actually costs to get it out of the ground and make it. So it's also a potential bubble. And some people warn in putting too much in that type of investment. So we have really been unsettled that this confidence we had five or six years ago has been greatly damaged. It's going to take some time to build it back up.

Steve:
Where do we put our confidence? I think that's a …

Darris:
Good question.

Steve:
Do we put our confidence in financial things? Do I put it in money? In our jobs? Or do we follow the Proverbs, where it says put your confidence in God? Get that right first in your life and that's going to help order the other things in a godly way.

Darris:
Okay, we've got just a short time here remaining in this segment. Let's kind of go back and by way of quick review, give our audience some steps on how to really get out of debt and how to stay out of debt.

Rex:
Okay, the first thing is to do an assessment, where you are now. The second thing is to come up with a plan. Not just one month, to get your bills in line, but I mean a year or two year…

Darris:
A budget plan.

Rex:
Right and then stick with it. Don't allow anyone to trick you into spending money you don't have, borrowing money you shouldn't spend. Once you have a plan, keep it in line and make sure that it works.

Darris:
Steve, anything to add to that yourself?

Steve:
I think that's wonderful, exactly.

Rex:
Oh, we should add make God your partner. We should say, be sure we're following the spiritual principles in God's Word and that's the integral part of our plan.

Darris:
I think it's important that our audience understand that you don't have to be a slave to debt. The booklet that we're offering, featuring on today's program, Managing Your Finances is an easy to read, basic booklet that gives you solid principles to begin to get out of debt managing your finances in a proper way. It's one of the best things we could put in front of you to develop sound financial principles to overcome some of the problems that you and I are living with in our own present world today. And don't forget, we've have The Good News magazine as well which also contains additional articles on the subject of the world economy and personal finances as well. You can go online at BeyondToday.tv.

You know, there are indications that some very difficult economic times are ahead. Many families have felt the squeeze already, many more will in the future. Financial troubles and debt are a huge problem, but you don't have to live under that weight. It's not difficult to understand how to get out from under our struggles with money, but it will require commitment. It is possible to take control of your money.

You and I must not manage our finances like most governments do. You see, we can't print money and live with huge surplus debt. It will catch up to us, and it will create enormous stress in our lives.

You can get out of debt! No matter how much you owe, you can restore your fiscal stability into your life. You have to make the right choices, starting now, but it's within your power. Make the choice to live within your income, and to prepare for the coming financial squeeze. And most importantly, put your faith and trust in God, and serve Him above all.

God is the ultimate provider of all of our needs.

Thanks for joining us on Beyond Today. We invite you to watch us again next week. And remember, if you'd like to review what we've covered today, you can find all of our past programs online at BeyondToday.tv.

For Beyond Today, I'm Darris McNeely.

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Darris McNeely

Darris McNeely works at the United Church of God home office in Cincinnati, Ohio. He and his wife, Debbie, have served in the ministry for more than 43 years. They have two sons, who are both married, and four grandchildren. Darris is the Associate Media Producer for the Church. He also is a resident faculty member at the Ambassador Bible Center teaching Acts, Fundamentals of Belief and World News and Prophecy. He enjoys hunting, travel and reading and spending time with his grandchildren.

Steve Myers

Steve is the Operation Manager for the Ministerial and Member Services department of the United Church of God. He is also an instructor at Ambassador Bible College as well as a host on the Beyond Today television program.  Together, he and his wife, Kathe, have served God and His people for over 25 years.

Rex Sexton

Rex Sexton grew up in Illinois and graduated from Ambassador College in Big Sandy, TX in 1976.  He began a career as a construction engineer in the Nuclear industry at Hanford, WA , and was hired full time in the ministry in 1982, and earned a Certified Financial Planner certification in 1994.  He and his wife, Patricia, have served congregations in Oregon, Washington, and Alaska.  In addition to pastoring responsibilities, they have also taught at and directed youth summer camps for many years.  Rex has authored many articles for church publications over the years and produced or appeared in several hundred Television programs.   

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These days, it's hard to find any good news about the economy. Stock markets around the world are unraveling. Home values have plummeted, and increasing numbers of families are struggling with mortgages they cannot afford.

Retirement accounts are shriveling. Grocery and utility bills are going through the roof. Businesses are failing, and new layoff announcements seem to come nearly every day. To say we're facing grim economic times would be a huge understatement.

"Many people are feeling totally helpless and stressed-out about what's happening in the economy. Even if they have a job now, there's a lot of anxiety about whether they'll still have one a few months down the road," observes Erica Sandberg, a San Francisco-based family money management consultant.

But while many feel blindsided by the economic downturn, it really was predictable, adds Michael Gutter, Ph.D., assistant professor of family financial management at the University of Florida. "As a society, we've been living way beyond our means and buying virtually everything on credit, including homes that are out of our price range," he says.

When the real estate market started its downward spiral a few years ago, many homeowners found themselves owing more on their homes than they were worth. They were in over their heads in debt and couldn't meet their mortgage payments, nor could they sell their homes. So they defaulted on their loans. This led to the failure of many banks, causing a chain reaction that continues to ripple through our economy.

Certainly there are no easy fixes to our world's financial problems. Any quick perusal of the daily news will attest to that. Still, families can—and should—take steps to maintain control of their own finances in these uncertain economic times. Doing so will not only decrease your stress levels, it is actually something God expects us to do.

God expects us to wisely manage what we have

In Luke 16:1-13, Jesus told the parable of the unjust steward to warn people against poor stewardship. This applies not only to what we do with our money, but also to everything else God has given us in this life.

Verse 11 sums up the parable by stating, "So if you have not been trustworthy in handling worldly wealth, who will trust you with true riches?" (New International Version). God wants to see how well we're going to manage our physical possessions now before He entrusts us with far greater assets in His Kingdom.

In Proverbs 27:23-24 we're admonished, "Be sure you know the condition of your flocks, give careful attention to your herds; for riches do not endure forever" (NIV). We're also told, "The plans of the diligent lead surely to plenty, but those of everyone who is hasty, surely to poverty" (Proverbs 21:5).

Many other verses in the Bible similarly stress the importance of good financial planning.

Even though our lives are in God's hands, He wants us to do our part to keep our finances in check. This is always important, but especially when times get tough. "You may have been able to get away with a certain amount of careless spending in the past, but you can't anymore," Dr. Gutter warns.

So what can you do? With today's economy in mind, here are five ways to manage your family finances more effectively:

1. Prepare a budget

The number one step you can take is to create a budget for your household. Simply put, "a budget is a plan for how you are going to spend your money," says Karen Varcoe, Ph.D., a financial adviser and consumer economics specialist with the University of California Cooperative Extension.

Budgeting helps you see how you are actually using your money and where you need to make adjustments in your spending. Dr. Varcoe says leaving your finances to chance, as so many families do, is a sure path to getting deep into debt.

Creating a budget involves five basic steps. First, sit down as a family and set some short-term and long-term goals in terms of how you want to use your money and time. What's your top priority? Is it sending your children to college? Saving for retirement? Spending time with your family? Going on a vacation? Buying a second automobile? This will get you thinking about how your financial habits could impact those goals in the future.

Second, calculate your net household income for one month. Include your regular paycheck, as well as any bonuses or income from investments or side jobs that you regularly receive.

Third, track your expenditures for a month. Get a notebook and put a heading at the top of each page for different spending categories such as housing, food, transportation, entertainment, clothing, medical, payments on credit card debt and loans, and miscellaneous. Each time you write a check, use your credit card or buy something with cash, record that amount under the appropriate heading in your notebook.

Fourth, at the end of the month, total each spending category. Don't forget to factor in annual or semiannual expenses such as property taxes or insurance premiums. Calculate the cost per month of each such bill. You'll need to set that money aside to be able to pay these bills when they come due. This will help you see if too much or too little of your monthly income is going toward certain kinds of purchases. Then add up all your expenses for a grand total and compare that to your net income for the month.

This leads to the fifth and last step—to actually plan out your budget. Hopefully your expenditures for the month were lower than your income. Then your task is to prioritize this excess to areas of your budget such as savings or paying extra on outstanding credit card debt.

Look at your monthly expenditures to see if they were in line with your family's goals. If not, you will need to make appropriate adjustments in your budget.

"If one of your family's goals is to spend time together in the evenings and weekends, then you don't want to get yourselves so far in debt that you're barely making it each month," cautions Bill Gustafson, Ph.D., senior director of the Center for Financial Responsibility at Texas Technical University.

"If you do, either you or your spouse will probably have to increase your work hours or get a second job if times get tough, and that's going to take time away from your most important goal."

If your expenses exceeded your income, you'll have to cut expenses or increase your income to have a balanced budget. If finding additional income is not possible, you will need to decrease your expenses. Most of these cutbacks will have to come from variable expenses (utility bills, entertainment, transportation, clothing, groceries, entertainment, dining out, etc.) rather than fixed expenses (mortgage or rent payments, auto and educational loans, tithes, etc.).

Once you've come up with your budget, stick with it. When you do spend, record the expenditure either on a computer (using a budgeting program such as Quicken or Microsoft Money) or in a ledger book. Keep a running total of how much you've spent in your various budget categories for each month. If you get to the point where there's no more money left for the month in a particular category, stop spending. Don't let yourself spend what's not in the budget.

2. Live below your means

In normal economic times, the standard recommendation from financial advisers is to live within your means. However, in today's economy, "you'd be much better off if you could actually live below your means," Dr. Gustafson says.

Take a good look around your household and see what you can do to cut down on expenses. You can usually find many ways to save money—everything from shopping at consignment stores and clipping coupons to going out to restaurants less often and doing your own yardwork instead of hiring someone else to do it. Turn down the heat in winter and the air conditioner in summer to save on utilities. By reducing expenses, you will have more money to put in emergency savings or to pay down outstanding bills.

You can even get your children involved with this. Depending on their age, explain to them some of the serious issues in the economy and why it's especially important not to be wasteful right now. See if they can come up with their own ideas for saving money.

Barbara of Chicago says that by doing this, her kids have really become motivated to "get on board" with the family's goals of lowering spending. "They check the newspapers for coupons for me and look for sales, they don't leave the lights on in their bedrooms anymore, and they haven't asked for a new toy in months," she relates.

"Now they're planning what vegetables they want to plant in a garden this summer so we can spend less on groceries. They've really helped us trim down the family budget!"

3. Avoid buying on credit

This is not the time to purchase depreciable, non-essential items (such as new cars, clothing, furniture, appliances, boats, jewelry and other luxury items) on credit, or to borrow additional money.

"You don't want to be adding to your debt load, especially in a sluggish economy," advises Dr. Varcoe. The reality is, "a lot of people are feeling insecure about their jobs right now. If you're one of the casualties, you don't want to be unemployed and have a heavy debt load to deal with too."

Keep in mind Proverbs 22:7, which tells us, "The rich rule over the poor, and the borrower is servant to the lender" (NIV). Taking on a lot of debt is not wise—even when the economy is in good shape.

If you become burdened down with a heavy load of debt, it's as though you become a slave to your creditors. You cannot spend your paycheck on what you want because you owe huge amounts to the credit card companies, which are probably charging exorbitant interest rates.

Not only is it inadvisable to use credit cards for "wants," but you shouldn't rely on them for "needs" either, cautions money management consultant Sandberg. "Credit cards are not an emergency vehicle. The moment a family begins to say, 'Hmmm, money's a little tight this month; I think we're going to have to start charging,' that's the time to cut up all the credit cards. If you're short on cash, you need to find another way to get by other than credit cards."

She says credit cards should only be seen as a payment tool for short-term loans that are paid back when the monthly bill comes due so you aren't being charged interest. (To avoid interest charges you must have a zero balance each month, and your credit card company may have other restrictions. Read the fine print.)

4. Pay off existing debts

If you're already in debt, do whatever you can to pay off existing credit cards and other high-interest loans. Perhaps you've been able to reduce household expenses or even have a few garage sales. Use that extra cash toward debt reduction.

Hal Young, a financial adviser in Folsom, California, says the key is to eliminate enough monthly expenses to come up with a so-called "power payment." Pay whatever extra amount you can, in addition to your regular minimum payment on at least one outstanding debt. Even if you're only paying an extra $100 a month, that can really help bring down the credit card balance. He recommends making a chart, listing every creditor by interest rate, total amount owed and the minimum monthly payment.

"The bill with the highest interest rate or the smallest balance is probably the best one to attack," says Young. It's far easier to whittle down a $3,000 credit card payment than a $30,000 home-equity loan.

You may also want to get some professional help from a debt counselor. Most cities in the United States offer some type of consumer credit counseling services. There you will be able to obtain help for free or at very low cost. Debt counselors can help you consolidate your debts and put together a payoff plan for you. They may even contact your creditors and arrange to have some of your bills delayed for a while to help you get back on your feet financially.

5. Save at least 10 percent of your income

Financial planners generally suggest families put at least 10 percent of their paychecks into savings. With the world economy as shaky as it is, many financial advisers, like Dr. Gustafson, recommend families save closer to 15 percent of their income if at all possible. Allocate that amount into your monthly budget, just as you would your fixed living expenses.

The Bible also stresses the importance of saving. In a footnoted paraphrase of Proverbs 21:20, The Ryrie Study Bible says, "The wise man plans and saves for the future, but the foolish person squanders what he has."

It's not easy, but by having money set aside in savings, you'll be better prepared if you have an unexpected expense (such as a major car or household repair), or if you find yourself having to buy a "big ticket" item (such as a new washing machine). You won't have to turn to your credit cards to get by.

"Even if you have debt, it's important to save some money," says Sandberg. "Debt is a very draining emotional experience. If you're simultaneously whittling that debt away, but at the same time you're also tucking money away for your family, it kind of counteracts that feeling of 'Ughhh, all I'm doing is paying off the damage of the past.' So emotionally it's just a really good thing to do."

You should have separate savings accounts set up for long-term goals (such as your retirement or college for your children) and short-term goals (to pay for things like vacations, new appliances or car down payments). Additionally, every family should have three to six months' worth of living expenses (mortgage or rent payments, utilities, food and transportation costs) set aside in an emergency fund—just in case you are laid off or incur a major unexpected expense.

The source of true peace of mind

We realize that many of our readers are hard working and that their income may be just enough to meet regular expenses. Realistically, you may not be able to apply all the principles in this article at this point in your life. If so, you're not alone—we've all been there.

However, you should still diligently examine your financial circumstances and the principles explained here and apply what you can. For example, you may not be able to save 10 to 15 percent of your income or put three to six months of living expenses in an emergency fund, but start where you can and save what you can. Make every dollar count.

But no matter what your family's financial situation, do not overly worry. True, these are indeed perilous economic times. There is a lot we could become anxious about if we let ourselves—but don't. Do what you can to try to get your financial house in order and to provide for yourself and your loved ones, and then leave the rest up to God.

Philippians 4:6 says, "Do not be anxious about anything" (NIV). Certainly that includes recessions, company layoffs and stock market crashes. Remind yourself that although God won't supply all of our wants, He "will meet all your needs" (verse 19, NIV). Ultimately, that is what is going to give you true security and peace of mind. GN

Darris McNeely works at the United Church of God home office in Cincinnati, Ohio. He and his wife, Debbie, have served in the ministry for more than 43 years. They have two sons, who are both married, and four grandchildren. Darris is the Associate Media Producer for the Church. He also is a resident faculty member at the Ambassador Bible Center teaching Acts, Fundamentals of Belief and World News and Prophecy. He enjoys hunting, travel and reading and spending time with his grandchildren.

Steve is the Operation Manager for the Ministerial and Member Services department of the United Church of God. He is also an instructor at Ambassador Bible College as well as a host on the Beyond Today television program.  Together, he and his wife, Kathe, have served God and His people for over 25 years.

Rex Sexton grew up in Illinois and graduated from Ambassador College in Big Sandy, TX in 1976.  He began a career as a construction engineer in the Nuclear industry at Hanford, WA , and was hired full time in the ministry in 1982, and earned a Certified Financial Planner certification in 1994.  He and his wife, Patricia, have served congregations in Oregon, Washington, and Alaska.  In addition to pastoring responsibilities, they have also taught at and directed youth summer camps for many years.  Rex has authored many articles for church publications over the years and produced or appeared in several hundred Television programs.   

 

Five Steps to Teach Your Children Money Management

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How well do your children understand and manage money? Do they understand basic concepts such as saving, budgeting, borrowing and debt? Use these helpful tips to teach them!

My son Danny is 16 now, but I still vividly remember a particular shopping trip with him when he was 7. We were in the electronics aisle at a discount department store. I had my back to him for a few moments while I tried to figure out which camera battery I needed. When I turned around, I saw Danny plopping a 12-inch television into our shopping cart.

"I'm going to buy this," he announced.

"We don't have the money for that," I quickly replied, and then picked up the TV to put it back on the shelf.

Immediately Danny hollered, "But Mommy, I have the money!" Then he opened his billfold to show me his wad of handmade $1, $5 and $10 bills.

Earlier that day, Danny, who has always been quite an artist, had used some of the currency in my wallet as models to meticulously draw copies of the bills on white construction paper. He then colored his bills with green and black pencils and cut them out. They looked surprisingly like the real thing.

I had assumed he was going to use his homemade currency to play "store" with his younger brother. But on this shopping trip, I realized that was not the case at all. Danny thought the way you "made" money was literally by drawing your own.

Time for a talk about money

The whole thing really took me by surprise. I would have never thought Danny had those kinds of misconceptions about money. It made me realize it was time to have some talks with him about money—how it's earned, how to use it wisely, and why it's important to be good stewards of what God has given us.

What about you? Do you talk to your kids—teens and younger children alike—about money matters?

We're told in Deuteronomy 6:6-7: "These words, which I am commanding you today, shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your sons and shall talk of them when you sit in your house and when you walk by the way and when you lie down and when you rise up" (New American Standard Bible).

The Bible has a lot to say regarding how we should be using our money. It follows, then, that we should be passing these financial principles on to our children and teaching them at least the basics of personal money management.  

The current worldwide economic downturn adds even more urgency to doing so. "Kids know we're facing tough times, but they don't always understand how we got there," states Karen Varcoe, Ph.D., consumer economics specialist with the University of California Cooperative Extension. She believes the vast majority of parents are not talking with their children about money management. Instead, kids are getting their "lesson" in personal finances by simply watching their parents.

Dr. Varcoe continues: "What they're seeing is most everything being purchased with a credit card or check. They don't see cash very often. This can give them the false impression that the family has an endless supply of money. And indeed, when we use credit cards instead of cash, we generally spend more than we should."

This kind of overspending not only sets the wrong example for kids, she says, but was certainly one of the root causes of the present global economic crisis. It's also the reason so many people found themselves in dire financial predicaments this past year when the U.S. economy nose-dived.

"You need to be telling your kids how to save money and spend it wisely, and why it's important to not misuse credit, so that their future financial stability isn't in serious risk, as is the case with so many people today," she urges.

This teaching can begin as early as age 3 or 4, or whenever your child begins asking about money. Your lessons will be very basic for preschoolers, perhaps just explaining that you have to work hard for your money and that it doesn't "grow on trees." As your children grow and mature, you can gradually get into more in-depth instruction.

What if your kids are teens and you've never talked with them about money management before? "It's never too late to have these kinds of conversations," Dr. Varcoe says, "but the sooner you do, the better."

Here are some suggestions to get you started:

1. Provide children an income to manage.

Children cannot learn money management unless they first have some money of their own to manage. You could provide that through some kind of allowance or through payment for certain tasks. "If your children are spending your money, they're not going to think twice about spending it. But if they're spending their own money, they're going to make much better purchasing decisions," says Erica Sandberg, a San Francisco-based family money management consultant.

She suggests you provide this income at fixed and regular intervals, such as on a weekly or biweekly basis. Make it a large enough amount that your children can afford a couple of inexpensive items at the dollar store, but not so much that they're able to buy a new video game without saving up for it.

How old should your child be for you to start providing such regular income? While preschoolers can start to be educated about what money is, children are not develop-mentally ready to learn how to manage it until they reach age 6 or 7, according to money coach Janet Bodnar, author ofRaising Money Smart Kids (2005).

She believes that is the best age to institute a small income. "Not only are children more mature, but they're also learning about money in school," she says. "So they'll know that a $1 bill equals four quarters, and that their $3 allowance will buy a small tub of popcorn, for example."

To prevent children from developing an "entitlement mentality," parents can make allowances conditional—meaning kids get their allowances only if they have made their beds daily, kept their room clean or done other routine chores. Many parents, however, take the approach that children should do routine chores without pay as part of their responsibilities as family members.

Either way, you may also want to give your children opportunities to earn an allowance or additional money by doing household tasks other than their regular chores—such as raking leaves, shoveling snow, washing the car, weeding the garden, cleaning out the basement, washing windows, etc.

This will teach your children to link having money with work. In addition to helping instill a valuable work ethic, chances are they're then going to be more careful about how they spend that money because they know how hard they worked to receive it.

2. Show them how to budget.

Once your children have a regular income, you can begin to teach them to live on a budget. Ideally, set aside some time when you can sit down with your kids and have a focused discussion about budgeting without any interruptions.

Start by explaining that a budget is a plan for how you are going to use your money. Help your kids understand that budgeting is not just sound advice from secular financial advisers, but that the Bible actually points to the necessity of budgeting. You could turn to Proverbs 16:9; 21:5; 24:3-4; 27:23-24 and Luke 14:28-30 for some good overview scriptures. 

Talk with your children about why it's important to live within your means, tithe and save a regular portion of your income. Discuss the downside of overspending, borrowing and getting into debt.

Read Leviticus 27:30 and Malachi 3:8-10 to your children to show them that God expects us to tithe (see the Q&A on page 29). Use Proverbs 21:20 and 30:24-25 as a starting point for talking about why we need to save some of our income. Read Proverbs 22:7, 26-27 when discussing the problems of getting into debt. When you go over these verses with your children, explain what they mean in everyday terms and how we can apply these principles in our lives today.

If you have a budget yourself (and hopefully you do!), show it to your kids, whether it's on your computer or in a ledger book. Help them see what you have in terms of monthly income, what bills need to be paid each month and what will be left over for discretionary spending. This will give your children a more concrete understanding of what it means to budget.

After you've explained some of the basics about budgeting, help them devise their own budgets. First, come up with a figure for how much income they normally have each month through allowances or earned money from household or part-time jobs. Then, help them figure out what percentages of their income should go to various categories—tithes, charitable donations and gifts, spending money, short-term savings, long-term or college savings, etc.

Other than tithes, the percentages for the other budgetary categories are variable. Savings should definitely be a high priority though. Shirley Anderson-Porisch, a financial adviser with the University of Minnesota Extension, encourages kids to save at least 50 percent of their money. That could be divided up between short and long-term savings.

"When children save their money, they learn the discipline of self-control and delayed gratification—vital lessons in today's economic climate," she says.

If you have young children, what works well is to give them a jar for each of their budgetary categories. That is a system that Eva Miller has adopted for her 8 and 10-year-old children. When they receive money, they distribute it into each of the jars, according to the designated percentages.

"Once they put money in their tithe or college savings jars, that's where the money stays—until it reaches $20 and then the tithes will go to our church, and the college money will be deposited into their savings accounts at the bank," she said. "They also have jars for short-term savings, and they'll use that to save up for things like a new game, and 'fun money,' which is what they use for everyday expenses like buying a candy bar at the grocery store."

If you have preteens or teens, you can set up their budgets on the computer or get them their own ledger book. Have them record their expenditures each month, and keep a running total of how much they've spent in each budgetary category. This will help them see on an ongoing basis if they are spending too much.

3. Use everyday opportunities to teach your kids about money.

Life brings countless opportunities to teach our children about money. Consider, for example, the story mentioned at the start of this article. That situation was the perfect way to begin a discussion with my son about money. While we were still at the store that day, I took Danny aside and spent a few minutes explaining to him how my husband and I obtained our money and that we didn't have an unlimited supply. (I also explained what it meant to counterfeit money!)

You will probably have your own "teachable moments" that you can turn into money-management lessons. If your child notices you paying your restaurant bill with a credit card, that is the ideal time to explain how credit cards work—that it's in effect a loan that must be paid back within a month to avoid interest charges. Preferably you already have the money to set aside as repayment so that it's just a matter of shifting funds and not borrowing what you don't have.

When your credit card statement arrives in the mail, show it to your kids. Let them see how interest is computed and compiled, and explain why it's important to not rack up credit card balances that can't be paid off immediately, so as not to waste money paying interest.

If your children are with you when you withdraw money from an ATM or write a check at a store, that's an opportunity to explain how checking accounts work. If your children are with you on trips to the supermarket, talk about your purchases as you shop and what makes something a "good buy."

If you're watching television with your kids and a commercial makes an outrageous claim, use this moment to talk about how to evaluate advertising. If you get "too-good-to-be-true" offers in the mail, that's the time to talk with your children about scams and that "you don't get something for nothing."

These kinds of teachable moments are effective, because they are real-life examples. Your children can see for themselves how a financial principle you are trying to teach them can be applied in everyday life. That makes your lesson seem much more pertinent.

4. Learn to say "No" to your child's "wants."

Children are usually quite adept at pleading with their parents for toys, electronic gadgets, designer clothes or other nonessential items. When they do, it's not always easy to tell them no. Most parents don't want to be the bad guy, nor do they want to deprive their kids of things others have. Still, Sandberg says, "You shouldn't cave into your kids' every whim—even if you can afford to buy them what they want, but especially if you can't."

Learning that you don't get to fulfill all your wants is an important life lesson. "Children need to experience some disappointments, because that's part of life," says Michael Gutter, Ph.D., family financial management specialist at the University of Florida. He suggests you explain to your child that there are things you would like to buy, too, but can't afford. "That way he knows he's not singled out; he's not the only one not getting what he wants."

Even if you can afford to buy these kinds of items for your children, you should still be very selective about how many of their requests you grant. "If you overindulge your children, they're not going to know what it's like to have to work hard and save up for things they want," Sandberg says.

One way to respond to pleas for nonessential purchases is to tell your child he or she cannot have the item now, but could request to have it as a gift for some special occasion. Or, if you have teens or preteens who are old enough to pay for a lot of their "wants" themselves, you can encourage them to either save money from their allowance or do extra household chores to earn the money.

If it's a matter of your teen wanting to spend more for a "need" than you think is reasonable—e.g., he wants the $100 skateboard shoes when you've only budgeted for a $50 pair of sneakers—you could tell him you're willing to pay the amount you had earmarked in your budget, but require him to come up with the difference. "This will help curb feelings of entitlement," Dr. Gutter says, "and make your teen personally responsible for achieving his desires."

5. Watch your own example.

It was mentioned at the outset, but it's worth repeating: Your children learn a lot about money just by observing you. They watch what you do at the supermarket, department store, bank, mall, etc., and tend to mimic your financial attitudes, values and behavior. Depending on what you're doing, they could be learning some very good lessons or some that are not so good.

Luke 6:40 declares, "Everyone, after he has been fully trained, will be like his teacher" (NASB). If you shop to entertain yourself or make a lot of impulse purchases, your children are probably going to see that as normal behavior and do the same.

On the other hand, if you always go to the grocery store with a shopping list or only make major purchases after you've saved up for them, your kids are likely to adopt those practices.

You need to model good monetary habits. "If you set the wrong example, any talks you've had with your children about money management will fall on deaf ears," says Anderson-Porisch. Your children aren't going to be careful with their money if you're careless with yours—even if you tell them to do otherwise.

That's not to say that talking with your children about personal finances isn't important. As has been stated throughout this article, it most certainly is. Your children need instruction and guidance from you about how to budget, save and shop wisely. But it's your example—your showing them that you're carefully managing your own money—that helps them see that these steps are more than just an academic exercise and that they really do matter.

Clearly, you may need to change some of your own spending habits so that you are modeling the right behavior. But with today's economy as uncertain as it is, that's something you should be doing anyway. Now is the time to cut out unnecessary purchases, pay off credit card debt and build up your savings—for the sake of your family's financial well-being.

The fact that your children are watching your example makes these steps even more vital. They are learning lifelong money habits from you—both in terms of what you say and do. They're looking to you to show them how they should manage their own household finances someday. It's up to us, as parents, to make sure our children are developing good money habits.  GN

Darris McNeely works at the United Church of God home office in Cincinnati, Ohio. He and his wife, Debbie, have served in the ministry for more than 43 years. They have two sons, who are both married, and four grandchildren. Darris is the Associate Media Producer for the Church. He also is a resident faculty member at the Ambassador Bible Center teaching Acts, Fundamentals of Belief and World News and Prophecy. He enjoys hunting, travel and reading and spending time with his grandchildren.

Steve is the Operation Manager for the Ministerial and Member Services department of the United Church of God. He is also an instructor at Ambassador Bible College as well as a host on the Beyond Today television program.  Together, he and his wife, Kathe, have served God and His people for over 25 years.

Rex Sexton grew up in Illinois and graduated from Ambassador College in Big Sandy, TX in 1976.  He began a career as a construction engineer in the Nuclear industry at Hanford, WA , and was hired full time in the ministry in 1982, and earned a Certified Financial Planner certification in 1994.  He and his wife, Patricia, have served congregations in Oregon, Washington, and Alaska.  In addition to pastoring responsibilities, they have also taught at and directed youth summer camps for many years.  Rex has authored many articles for church publications over the years and produced or appeared in several hundred Television programs.